What to do if you have a crush? To enjoy or not to enjoy? In the last post we read about 'What is true love? And 'What does it look like?' Well before we get to true love – we first are attracted to the person. So if you develop a crush on someone, here are a few questions you need to ask yourself: Is he single and available? If no, walk away. Is the man is married or otherwise inappropriate – your dad's or son's best friend or your priest or gay? Life throws us curveballs.

Instead spend time doing things with family and close girlfriends. If however he is single then… Is he available? No, I don't mean is he gay? Is he available? That may sound strange but how often do you meet men and they are emotionally unavailable? Is he open to a relationship? Or is he a commitment phobe? The best way is to observe men you know well and watch how they behave around someone they like or are interested enough to find out if they might like them.

How to tell if a guy is into you? 1) They create opportunities to be around – they loiter or chat (but beware here, make sure they are not interested in your work colleague who sits near you or your best friend or sister!) 2) They watch you when you are not looking. 3) If you are out with a group and he is taking photos and you notice he takes more photos of you. Imagine you see a beautiful rose. You are walking along. Maybe you go and smell the perfume.

4. They contact you often – which in today's techno world could be face-to-face or telephone, or email, sms, Skype, msn… FB (Facebook)… They most likely will first need to 'check you out' to see if they might be interested. You noticed it out of the corner of your eye, you go back to have a closer look. But then you move away and yet inside you are already deciding if the next time you are walking near here you will come and look again at this gem of creation.